Saturday, June 24, 2017

Opening up the World

Jacob H. and Mom, Misty

We met with Jacob H. and his mom, Misty, at McKenna Farms on a perfect spring morning. Jacob comes early in the day so that his mom can make it to work on time.  As we sat in Maria’s Place, the gazebo that honors the memory of a young woman who also required therapies at McKenna Farms, I recalled his mom’s application letter for a Jacob’s Fund ridership, which began “I am writing to request a scholarship to help out with my son, Jacob, for services not covered by my insurance, at McKenna Farms . . . Jacob is six years old and is nonverbal  . . . (he) is having a great deal of trouble at school because of his disability of being unable to communicate. . . Jacob’s doctor feels the horse therapy will improve his gait.”
Though he’s shy and doesn’t talk, I know from the photos Misty has shared with me that he’s a fun-loving little boy who enjoys playing.

Officer Jacob H., at your service          

Since Jacob’s Fund began, we’ve learned that way too many conditions exist that can interfere with a child’s development. Jacob H. suffers from Klinefelter syndrome, a condition we’d never heard of, caused by extra X chromosomes, a spontaneous and random chromosome disorder. Because of this, he has wobbly arms and legs. In addition, he’s recently been diagnosed with autism.
                This sweet six-year-old lives in a confined world, where he can’t talk (he’s been in speech therapy since he was two), has difficulty walking, and is unable to engage with other children, his teachers, and the world around him.
                On a recent visit to the cranial-facial clinic, doctors found a larger-than-normal gap at the back of his throat that is preventing Jacob H. from forming some sounds. They plan to correct that with surgery in November. In the meantime he’s working with Melissa, his speech therapist, to help make those sounds once surgery is completed.
                Misty is more than pleased with her son’s progress and his speech therapist: “Melissa is great! I love her!”
                Mother and son share a room that she rents in the home of a friend. Misty works part-time at Publix, a grocery store.

Jacob H.'s sweet, shy smile - so endearing

                Of course Jacob’s Fund wanted to help this kindergartner. And Jacob is excited as he begins riding Gizmo, his therapy horse.  Still, when a volunteer brought one of the miniature horses over for him to see while his mom and I talked, he was a bit hesitant. He and I approached the little horse while the volunteer talked soothingly to both the horse and the boy.  Jacob was tentative about touching the horse’s face, but softly stroked its back and ribs.
                His shy smile showed his pleasure, and it appeared again and widened when we asked if he’d seen Nigel, the baby goat.  
We’re rooting for both Jacob H. and his mom. She’s a single mom with very limited resources putting her all into giving her little son the best care and therapy so that he can have the fullest life possible.
                We’re glad we can help.

                Thank you for visiting our blog. We welcome your questions and comments about Jacob’s Fun and hippotherapy and therapeutic riding. We hope that Jacob H.’s story has inspired you to help us help children with developmental impairments through equine therapy. You can email us at jacobbeachyfund.@gmail.com, phone us at 513-423-0108, or write or mail a check to us at:

Jacob’s Fund
1630 Tipperary Drive

Middletown, Oh 45042-3875

Wednesday, May 10, 2017

Goat, Goat!





The Barn at McKenna Farms 

You can’t say we weren’t warned. The day before our visit to McKenna Farms, We saw the Facebook post: Nigel, a baby goat, had arrived at the farm. 

            “Cute,” we thought, “very cute.” We had no idea.

            We pulled into the parking lot between school dismissal and dinner time, a very popular time slot. The parking lot was nearly full, and as we rounded the corner of the farmhouse, waiting parents and siblings filled the porches in the warm spring weather, though a number of families had drifted off toward the barn to see the new baby goat.

            The last time we were here the new waiting room was nearing completion, piled with furniture. Now we take a look inside, where more parents wait for their children. We’re drawn to the striking painting on the wall, a farm, painted by the grandmother whose granddaughter comes to the farm for therapy.

            Then, approaching from the barn, we saw some familiar faces: Melissa and her twins, Cameron and Landon, two sweet boys Jacob’s Fund had sponsored. The boys are taller now, and they have a baby sister who is hardly a baby any longer. Melissa and I hugged, and each of the twins met my gaze and greeted me. 

            The buzz around us echoed as everyone who passed by coming from the barn said to those going toward the barn: “Have you seen Nigel? You’ve got to see Nigel.”  

            Of course we had to see Nigel, too.

Charlie's little sister holding Nigel    
      
         We found him in a horse stall all his own. Jackson, Jessie’s older son, perched in the stall window, overseeing Nigel’s activities and visitors. Jackson has great plans for Nigel; he can’t wait to build a Nigel house. He held Nigel up for me to pet, and I was hooked on Nigel at that point: his sweet little face, his patience with all the humans popping around him like soap bubbles, his eager playfulness.

            His space had been furnished with all the things a goat needed: hay to chew on as he learned to eat big-goat food (it also served as an edible sleeping mat), an incline propped on a hay bale so he had something to climb on, water, and toys.  He was surrounded by kids and adults petting him and watching him hop, climb, and gently butt his head against the forest of legs in the stall. While we were there, McKenna Farms’ vet stopped by to give advice on when six-week-old Nigel could stop taking milk from a baby bottle every eight hours (a volunteer has been working the night shift to keep Nigel well-fed) and begin solid food. We were every bit as enchanted with this little goat as the children were. 

            Over the next day and a half, we were to learn that Nigel, a whiskered furball not much bigger than a large cat, was already unwittingly starting to earn his keep. 


 Jacob H. and his mom

 Charlie, behind his mom and little sister

            Our appointments the next day were with Jacob H. and his mom, and Charlie and his mom. By the time we caught up with Jacob H. and Misty, they’d already visited Nigel, and Jacob broke into a smile when Nigel’s name was mentioned. Charlie and his sister, Sarah, too, had visited Nigel before his therapeutic riding session.  After talking with the family, Sarah and I found ourselves back at Nigel’s stall, where she ducked inside to get some hands-on goat time.  I made sure the stall door stayed latched as the parade of visitors continued. 

            That afternoon Jonah and Amy stopped by. Jonah was clearly enamored. “Goat, goat,” he said, pointing in the direction of the barn. 

            One-on-one therapy is very important to a child with developmental impairments, so much so that social development is often overlooked, or regarded as incidental, a byproduct of being in the world with others. But social interactions are important to our emotional and mental health, whether we are adults or children.  Kids’ social groups can help model good social behaviors, and allow children to see how what they do or say affects others.  They learn how to cooperate for a better outcome.

            And here is Nigel with friends in a cooperative play activity that . . . well, take a look (that’s Jonah on the left):


 Taking Nigel for a walk
  Need I say more?

Watch this space for more about Jacob H.  and Charlie, coming soon.
            We welcome your questions and comments about Jacob’s Fund and hippotherapy and therapeutic riding.
            We’re pleased you’ve visited our blog and we hope you will be inspired to contribute to the scholarships Jacob’s Fund provides for children with developmental impairments. You can reach us at:

1630 Tipperary Drive
Middletown, Ohio 45042-3875
513.423.0108
Jacobbeachfund@gmail.com